I will start with one of our 5 topics and present one post per question about that topic. Then we will move to the next topic and the questions that fit for that one. That pattern will follow for all thirty questions. SO .... you may just begin by reading the first post or the last one ( most recent) and each time you decide to bring up a good growth conversation with your spouse or partner, just read the question and follow these good guidelines:
Read the question aloud. One partner answer while the other one listens.
Then the other partner answer while the other listens.
Use "I" messages ( " I feel.....when....")
Summarize what you hear ( " What I hear you saying is....")
Try to listen and just think about what is being said. No need to resolve anything or change the other person's mind. Just get to know them! You may learn things you didn't know!
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