Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Grow Where You Are Planted







Next Question :    What is One Way I Can Personally Grow in the Next Year?

Ok, we are digging a little deeper now. Let your loved one make a few small, gentle cracks in the surface of your complacency.  Maybe they see something you don't. As they speak words of admonition, don't become defensive. Just listen. Don't respond. Intend to just think about it later .
They may be right, wrong, on-to-something, or just plain way out in left field. Just listen. Your turn is coming.

When you get to tell your partner how you think they can grow, remember to be kind and positive. State that you think they can learn to be less sensitive. Or maybe suggest they really work on their skill of photography.  You may challenge them to seek more friendships of the same sex. Or encourage them to seek counseling for some issue that just is not resolved in their personal soul and mind.

This question is a bit threatening, but if it is spoken and heard with the best interest of the person in mind,  new things may bloom as a result!

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