Memories ..... I can think back to a bad memory and feel sick to my stomach. And I can also think back to a wonderful memory and gain an excitement and contentment by just visiting that place and time in my spirit and mind.
Ask your partner "What is a special memory of time together, and what made it so great?"
Take note of if it is something that can be re-created in a simple way some ordinary day, or if it is a memory that was made with some planning and sacrifice. The goal is not to necessarily go back and re-create that time, but if you can , great! The goal is really to hear what it is that your partner needs from you to keep time together special. To each person it may be different. It may be activity, relaxation, a different set of scenery, a shared project, or solitude or great conversation.
As the memory lights the corners of your minds, may it help you see the one you love, even more clearly!
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